The news that an autistic child in the family, usually with a series of reactions. Although all family members, even extended, would be supported in an ideal world, the sad truth is that many are angry or disappointed. One family member scold the autistic child often?Is he or she look at your autistic child unfairly? Does this family insist on treating Iouri autistic child in the same way he or she treats all the other children in your family, even if it is not appropriate? These are signs that this is a relatively receptive to your autistic child or situation. This can often be the case if the discovery of a child is autistic, so be aware, as a parent and ready for that to happen.
Often, unreceptive relatives simply do not understand what autism is or what it means for your child and your immediate family.Though many see autism as mental retardation, many autistic children and adults are very intelligent, they simply are not able to do the same way as other communications. Try to explain what autism means to this family member, and to spend some time with you and your autistic child. Enable them to autism and the effects of the methods you use to see done.
If a family member is still unsupportive or refuses your explanation, ask why this family has a member reacts to the situation. Are they afraid of hurting the child? Are they concerned about the added responsibility when spending time with your child? You may feel guilty or ashamed of themselves. If you can identify why a family member does not respond, you may be better off with a question and I hope to help him or her overcome their original perceptions.
Maybe even talk much or spend time together will help this family member overcome their prejudice. If this person has to be stubborn or set in your head, you’ll never be able to show him or her how beautiful your son or daughter has autism and all. If so, can eliminate this person from your life can be difficult, but it will also free you and your child of this family of negative energy and personality. In this evolving situation, it is the best positive support available. Note that other family members were supported, that your children are well placed and a source of strength for you. Strengthen your support network through participation in group support for parents of autistic children. And do not forget to surround yourself with those who accept and love their child, family or not.
